Ladies and gentlemen, if your really serious about abstaining keep the opposite sex out of your home. I mean really who are you fooling? If they are not REALLY JUST A FRIEND!!!!! Then always meet in a neutral place... public, controlled setting. Seriously..... I mean how do you expect to have a grown ass man in your house on your couch and not want to kiss, snuggle, touch, and eventually have a taste of some sausage when it starts getting hot.
Unless you have been walking the walk for a long time, who are you kidding by inviting him over for dinner, just dinner right? Or going to his place for dinner... then drinking some wine, getting a foot massage (dang that sounds great) next thing you know a back massage, a neck massage, a tongue massage. LOL for real people!!
So while you might be fooling yourself, your not fooling God... cuz He can see what's in your heart and knows just how far you will go before you go there.
A man or woman of integrity will agree and make every effort to keep you both out of the frying let alone the fire.
If your not dating a person who understands that then you shouldn't be dating that person. Just keeping it real and if you wanna be real with yourself and your journey you will admit the truth in my statements.
I have never been able to invite a man over to my house for an evening and not have him want sex, and me pretty much want it too, unless I just wasn't really that interested in him.
So lets not put ourselves in a position to fail K Pumpkin???? LOL
Please share your thoughts... do you agree or disagree?
Smooches!
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