I know your probably wondering why anyone would want to read a blog about someone who's NOT having sex, but to the contrary I find it far more fascinating to attempt to ABSTAIN from sex then the over rated, over exaggerated sexual climate we currently live in. I mean talk about over sexed!!!!! Sex on TV, sex in classrooms? "Sexting" (sexual texting), phone sex, hetero sex, bi-sex, homo sex. You name it.
I believe that as a culture we here in the US are some of the most oversexed people on the planet. Los Angeles being the pornography capital of the world it's no small wonder.
I find that shift in our culture has gone to an extreme when it comes to sex. Now I don't believe in sexual oppression, we should talk about it & have it (hopefully with a spouse), but be responsible about it. God did create us as sexual beings, to enjoy it & reproduce.
Once upon a time to be promiscuous was frowned upon, the girl who was having sex with all the boys at school was not the norm & being a virgin was acceptable, but now if your a young girl in school not having sex, your peers look at you sideways. I remember when I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who was known as the "loose" girl. She could be caught behind the bungalows, kissing & being fondled by the boys. Back then no one thought that was cool. Now girls are giving head (yes I said head) in the classrooms?????? Where did it all start going wrong?
I keep it real, so if for any reason you find my terminology offensive, please keep it to yourself. LOL
Your welcome to pray for me at any time & allow God to make the changes. ;*)
Now as for my sexual desires at this time:
As of today, day 14 no withdrawal symptoms, no cold sweats, no issues at all. As a matter of fact aside from this blog I didn't even think about sex. How about you?
One male reader stated that the longest he has EVER gone without sex was 6 months. What is the longest you have ever gone?
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