I say that because if I'm keeping it real if you've been with more than 3-5 men in your sexual career your considered promiscuous. I bet many of you are cringing at that revelation but the first step is admitting it. Now I've been married so of course that doesn't count, but all the other men that were not my husband were out of line, out of order & just plain out of a desire to either satisfy my physical or emotional erg to connect with someone. (the erg we all have)
Now I'm asking you if you have the it factor because it's different when you abstain & are proud of it because you have made a conscious effort to do so, as apposed to the fact that you couldn't get it if your life depended on it. Come on, you know there are some that just don't get a lot of action, so it would be easy to go a long time without it right?
I'm saying all that to say that some are very judgmental of others who have a hard time abstaining from it when the fact is that the only reason you abstain is because you don't have opportunity or are not in a position to be tempted by it. You may have the urges but are far from being able to satisfy them short of paying for it or masturbating (which a lot of us do) ***just sayin
Now I can literally pick up my phone & dial at least 10 numbers if I wanted it & all of them would happily ablige, as a matter of fact have been trying to get it for a while. (note to self delete those numbers). Now this is not just because I'm a woman (men like to say it's easier for women) because there are lots of men out there that don't have a problem getting it either. Now I'm not bragging nor is it something to be proud of I'm just stating facts & trying to make a point somewhere. :*)
Oh that point would be:
Judge not lest you be judge by the same measure. Never say never & don't condemn when it's not your struggle.
I was talking to a friend who was really struggling recently & brought to tears about it. See this is a bondage that many in the church face, a stronghold that must be broken in the lives of many saints so that they can move forward in their purpose, because as you know sin affects the anointing. This is the main reason for this blog.